“Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.” — Muhammad Ali
“The cure for anything is salt water – sweat, tears, or the sea.”
Today, I woke up to a friend’s email linking to a HuffPo Women’s article titled What’s Your Joy Trigger?. The 13-year-old, pubescent kid (or 26-year-old single woman, you choose) in me thought: “This must be about choosing the right vibrator.” But of course, I remembered that the friend who pointed me to this article had never failed to recommend readings that inspired me in some way. And to be honest, vibrators are far from inspiring or awakening anything in me.
Diligently, I went ahead and read the post from the comfort of my bed, thanks to my iPhone. It turns out the author writes about finding the “little” things in life that make us happy, so that we can turn to them when feeling hopeless. These are defined as joy triggers.
Reading about joy triggers brought me back to Favignana, one of the Aegadian islands of the coast of Sicily that I visited this summer. During my stay in Erice, I woke up one day feeling adventurous and wanted to relax and let go of the WiFi access that kept me connected to my work Blackberry.
After briefly consulting a Lonely Planet guide that I borrowed from a friend, I decided to hop on a ferry from the port of Trapani with nothing more than a bikini, a beach towel, my camera and a book.
About five minutes after finding a seat onboard, one of the crew members came over looking for the lady sitting next to me. He told her that it was OK for her to come now and pointed at a door that read “Crew Members Only”.
Somehow, said crew member thought I was traveling with her and told me to come over as well. Of course, I followed him and it turns out that I ended up riding with the crew and scoring a prime photo spot onboard the Siremar ferry.
After a quick stop at the island of Levanzo, I was on my way to something I can now define as one of my joy triggers.
I arrived in Favignana and immediately asked if I could walk to the beach. I was told by a local fisherman that I could, but that I’d be better off riding a bike. I noticed my question puzzled him a bit. (How did I not know that you must ride a bike or scooter in Favignana!)
Remembering that the point of this day trip was to let go, I ignored the fact that I hadn’t been on a bike since 2008 along with my fear of being hit by a careless driver, and went ahead and rented a bike for the day (just like everyone else on the island).
I was almost run over by (mean) unsupervised cattle. It is hard to explain how I escaped death by cattle, but I managed to do it and then burst into laughter, all by myself.
Unfortunately, I cannot take a ferry to Favignana whenever I’m in need of a joy trigger. But what I can do, is look at my pictures from that trip and remember how I felt while riding my rented bike around Favignana. Minus the cattle incident, that is.
Naples: A graffiti artist’s most coveted canvas.
One of the many blue-fin penises that are found throughout Naples. This one was tagged somewhere in Via Toledo. What does it mean?
Don’t be submissive nor pious. I love you free, beautiful and crazy.
Whether it’s a friend or a lover, anyone who comes into our lives with good intentions, will see past our mistakes and flaws understanding their source and ultimately appreciating who we truly are.
Apologize for your wrongdoings. We all make mistakes. But never apologize for who you are.
Via Toledo, Naples
Film: Big Up
I purchased the Bondi Hipstapak right before leaving for Italy earlier this month. I must say this app yielded some interesting shots throughout my trip. Some complain that the Hipstamatic viewfinder is not very reliable, but to be honest this is what I find most interesting about this application. Not really knowing what the outcome will be until you look at the actual print is what makes this app worth it in my book. Reminds me of my days in the dark room.